Venue for the Wedding

When we plan a wedding, a point we should think is the venue or location. Location is important to ensure your wedding will look beautiful, lively and elegant. In our culture, usually a wedding will take place at the house itself, halls, hotels or garden (garden wedding).

Home   
 The majority, people will think the house itself is the most ideal locations to get married. Of course the bride and grrom will be more comfortable at home, right? If your home environment is quite big and spacious, the wedding will be easier to manage. Also your wedding budget can be reduced because most of the feast held at home is a collaborative within the relatives.




 Council / Hall / Chamber.
Those who live in flats or apartments are more likely to have a wedding in the hall. This is because their homes may not have enough space to accommodate wedding guests and other equipment. However, people nowadays prefer to held the wedding at Hall because of the environment, spacious can accommodate hundreds or thousands of people to the event.The cost to rent a hall can be cheap and expensive depending on the facilities.

Hotel 
 The wedding at the hotel is the dream of every bride and groom with a big budget. Marriage is a ceremony usually held once in a lifetime, and what is wrong if we spend more bit for this event? Nowadays, many hotels offers complete packages for wedding. What you only need to do is survey and get the quotations from the hotel. If you require for variety and a beautiful luxurious environment for your future wedding, saving from now ya .. ;)

Garden
Imagine when you step into the arena, surrounded wedding fresh flowers, green environtment and comfortable air. Such beautiful your wedding is ?Actually, the garden concept of wedding is something new and luxurious. This is a contemporary modern concept of marriage is characterized by the English style of wedding. And of coz you have to expend your budget for this kind of wedding which is elegant and stylish. The only one disadvantages of this concept is " not weather proof" . It is suitable for all seasons except during the monsoon season.So, if you decide to apply this concept for your wedding, please make sure that your historic day will not hit by heavy rain or tempest.So, make the right choice ya.

Gifts From De Groom

Malay marriage and Tray Delivery could not be separated. The only thing that has always been the issue is "whether the goods should be placed on a tray as a delivery to our partners'?. What are the determinants of the particular item, the choice to be sending? Is it because of its price, whether cheap or expensive? Or because the need of the goods? Or maybe because of our culture requires that goods should be sending. So do not be enticed or impressed .

Examples of gifts to de Bride :-

Watch

Chocolate

Clutch

Sirih Junjung

Shoe

Perfume

Ring

Telekung

Dowry

Gifts From De Bride

Now many sorts of items can be a gifts for marriage. From the cheap sarong up to the expensive, such as Handycam or other things.Handphone also can be a delivery of goods too, but it's depend on our budget la. For those who already have the list of goods that can be done would have no problem to send out, but for those who still wondering what item to give, you can refer as below :-

Wallet

Al Quran

Cuppies

Fruit Basket

Tie

Wacth

Shoe

Perfume

Sirih Junjung

Songkok & Sejadah

Belt

Health

These tests help identify health problems and risks to be faced for a couple's and their children's future. Pre-marital health testing allows a person to:

 
Knowing the health status of yourself and your partner and learn how to care and maintain their health

Detect if they are suffering any certain diseases, including hepatitis B and sexually transmitted disease (STD)

Detect inherited diseases that affect children's health such as thalassemia, hemophilia, anemia and G6PD deficiency.

Knowing the prospective bride's readiness in terms of health for children. Preparations include rubella vaccine, knowing the blood (and blood compatibility with her ​​husband) and anemia.

Pre Wedding Course

Part 1 : Fundamentals of Human Construction

a. Faith

b. Worship

c. Islamic Morality

d. Marriage & Procedures

Part 2 : Family Management

a. Relationships in the Family
b. Family Resource Management
c. Health Management

d. Couple / Family Communication

Part 3 : Problems In Family Management

a. Stress Management
b. Conflict Management
c. Counseling Services
d. Management Divorce / Fasakh and Procedures Divorce

Timeline

Items	When ? (Month, before the Wedding)
Attend the Marriage Course	5
A medical check	5
Selecting a date for the wedding and the wedding	5
Selecting the location	5
Contact the office of judge and Islam	3
Contact the wedding witnesses	3
Determine the style and theme of wedding ceremony	4
Arrange budget	8
List the name of the guest	3
Complete the delivery of goods	3
Choosing the catering / banquet	3
Solve all the wedding business (deposit, go to select and try out equipment clothing)	4
Choose and define all wedding (invitation cards, wedding cake, flowers, hands, photographer, beautician and others)	4
Arrange shelter relatives who came from afar	3
Choosing the clamps, escorts and emcee	3
To ensure that flowers and gifts that egg was ready	1
Order gifts for guests	1
Talk to your photographer that you want the concept of image	2
Ensure your clothes size according to your body shape and the pair	2
Start sending invitation cards to relatives far away	2
Choosing a wedding cake	1
Ensure that your rings in the correct size	2
Ensure that all requirements of a wedding party, wedding and reception complete	2
Selecting a wedding ring	2
Choosing the music or song when weddings take place	1
Creating a spa treatment	3
Booking accommodation for a holiday honeymoon	3
Wedding (Nikah)	-
Wedding ceremony	-

Wedding Theme

The most significant matter when we want to decide for wedding dress is the color. Then the color selected should be with the appropriate type of fabric. Various factors must be taken into account, such as body size, bride, groom and couples color and the costs allocated.

Examples of vibrant colors is black, blue, night, dark purple, dark green and maroon. Luxury collection of dark colors is very effective when paired with bright colors because that is the opposite characteristics. It raises a dramatic effect. If the dark imposing, it is less prominent but will sink the series wearer. Usually if no elements contrary, the effect is less prominent.

Bridal bright colors mean like, white milk, beige, purple, violet, light orange and light chocolate. Dark-applying, will cause the opposite effect of interest. Also Light-applying would create a harmonious and gentle way.

As stated before, the bride should not choose just depends on skin color alone. Wearer's body size is also very important because colors can cause wearer appear larger or to look thinner. Bright colors like yellow or pink will cause a big look larger while dark colors can give the illusion of a more slender.

Tips Selecting Mak Andam

• Advance booking - Make sure the booking is made early (6 months) so you get a Mak Andam. Shop around for your selection is in line with the needs and budget.

• Test make-up/pre-wedding makeup - Try a test makeup / pre-wedding makeup before the Mak Andam selected.

• Make sure that you do not receive Beautician other book yourself on the date of your event. This is to prevent your Beautician menatarias rushed you to the next book. As a result you will have to bear the result of slipshod makeup and unsatisfactory.

• Talk - Make sure you made discussion with your Mak Andam first. To be clear witht what you like and what you dislike. This will facilitate your Mak Andam make up. Both parties (You and Mak Andam) must be satisfied and your joy will be reflected in your face!

• Picky - In bridal make-up determine the desired, you may be a little picky. You are entitled to speak out if you not satisfy with your make up result. But make sure you have some knowledge about the make-up. Discuss with your Mak Andam on how to achieve the desired make-up. Remember, be picky.

What is Marriage ?

Marriage is a binding relationship between two people who are recognized by the civil authorities and / or bound by religious beliefs of the participants. This dual nature, which is binding legal contract and the promise of morality, marriage is difficult be cause.

In one form or another, marriage is found in almost every community. The oldest records that refer to marriage say that marriage is a custom sound. Although anthropologists have tried to detect the origin of marriage, such as the primitive random sexual hypothesis, they have failed to obtain any evidence.

In the Western world, marriage is traditionally understood as a monogamous kesedudukan between a man (husband) and woman (wife), while in parts of the rest of the world, polygamy was a general biasa.Secara forms of marriage, society's view of the concept of polygamy is when a husband has more than one isteri.Sebenarnya in anthropology, the concept that most accurately describes a husband who has more than one wife is polygyny, while describing the concept of a wife who has more than one man is polyandry. Polygamy usually takes the form of polygyny (a man with many wives), but a very small number of people allow polyandry (a woman has many husbands).